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Okay Let's Try This Again!

September 6th, 2016 at 09:32 am

Today's is DH's 58th birthday and our 38th anniversary is in 2 days. Since January 2015 many changes have happened in my life. #1. I quit my job. Yes I am hoping this time that I don't have to go back to work. We are not prepared but I could not take the physical and mental stress anymore of being in charge of over 50 employees and almost 100 elderly residents.

I was very good at my job, but I had nothing left at the end of the day to enjoy my life. It was incredibly rewarding, but also incredibly demanding. I used up all my stores in my body and mind giving 150%. So I am starting week 9 of retirement.

Also my youngest daughter, her legally blind, former Marine husband and my two granddaughters moved back to Southern California where my SIL will be back on base as a civilian because of a job dropped in his lap. He had a good finance job up here in Northern California, but they really wanted to be back in the Temecula/Murietta area so off they went.

I have so many goals/responsibilities for being home. I realize I may have to go back to work at some point, so I am not wasting any time in doing what I should have done in 2010-2012 when I started my last position. My yard is looking great and slowly but surely I am reclaiming the house.

But today it's making a one layer German Chocolate Cake and potato salad, along with that Texas caviar? It is black beans, tomatoes, onion, roasted corn (leftover from last night), avocado and maybe some garbanzo beans, mild salsa with lots of cilantro. DH will be barbecuing steaks for his birthday dinner.

Just to refresh, DH has done virtually 100% of grocery shopping and cooking over the past 36 or so years.

I went down to SoCa for my granddaughter's birthdays (August 12, 18, turning 2 and 8) and will be returning next week for a trip to Disneyland with my daughters and granddaughters, and I think one SIL.

I need to read blogs and wrap my mind around the things I need to do to be able do stay home. It is definitely fall here in Humboldt and my 60 year old Japanese Maple is turning beautiful shades of yellow, orange and brown. Fall is my favorite time of year!

Have a great day!

13 Responses to “Okay Let's Try This Again!”

  1. ThriftoRama Says:

    Uh, how do I talk my husband into cooking all the meals? Wink

  2. ceejay74 Says:

    I got confused for a moment with Petunia100, who had a similar situation with her daughter and disabled ex-military son-in-law living with her. What a coincidence!

    Best of luck with the early retirement! I'm very interested to hear how it goes.

  3. creditcardfree Says:

    Welcome back! It's been awhile!!

    Good luck with your retirement.

  4. rob62521 Says:

    Best wishes on your retirement. You have to do something to protect your well being because you are right, giving 150% means you have nothing left for your personal life.

  5. Petunia 100 Says:

    Ceejay, the coincidence is even larger than that! Petunia100 also does not do the grocery shopping or cooking at her house. Smile

    Best of luck with your retirement, Cherly B.

  6. PatientSaver Says:

    Congrats on retiring. Something i aspire to, so please share more about how you'll swing it. Dinner sounds great, BTW.

  7. FrugalTexan75 Says:

    Congrats on retiring!

  8. ceejay74 Says:

    LOL Petunia, wow, that IS another big coincidence! Big Grin

  9. Thrifty Ray Says:

    Retirement is my goal in about 4 years. I hope all works so that you can stay retired and live with much less stress!

  10. LivingAlmostLarge Says:

    Congratulations on retiring! What did you do?

  11. MonkeyMama Says:

    Hi Cheryl! Glad you came back!

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  13. edit my term papers Says:

    My sincerest congratulations on your retiring! Hope you'll be happy and satisfied with having more free time!

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